Before we can hand down the verdict, we have to make sure it is fair and just. One of the biggest hindrances to making an objective decision is personal involvement, or a bribe. Things that can make us not really see the situation objectively and truthfully may be when:
- Money is involved
- Our feelings have been hurt
- One person involved is a relative
- One person is more likable or honourable in our eyes that the other person
- We've been bribed
- Objectivity ~ We need to pretend we are not personally involved.
- Ask Others for Advice ~ Seek out the advice of someone who is not personally involved.
- Reflect and ask yourself: "Who would be a good objective person to help me with my problems?"
- If your quiet voice doesn't know, then ask "Please help me find a mentor/guide/friend that I can trust and consult" and keep your eyes open for someone who may enter into your life, or someone you already know but hadn't thought of.
Warren, S. 2010, 7 Ancient Keys To Happiness, CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform
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